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	<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 01:04:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 00:42:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on AdLife looks like a winner by Shiv Singh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shiv Singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:54:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Abraham, it was great chatting with you and thanks for sharing your own insights about the digital marketing space and social media in particular.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Abraham, it was great chatting with you and thanks for sharing your own insights about the digital marketing space and social media in particular.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Mad Men Twitterers No More by Stevie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 00:35:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The trick that AMC should have done was create other characters that took over:  
Pete Campbell could have taken over along with Don Draper actually flirting with the fine ladies on twitter. 
Plus given that  Joan Holloway and  Roger Sterling could have taken over-- and driven out the other characters while having Twitter remove them from behind the scenes and plant new ones in their place


there is so much that could be done
Hmmm Dexter and CSI Miami are often filmed in my city.. wonder if I should hit their PR about a campaign about the next season of Dexter ..Lila showing up from Paris to reach out to dexter and maybe the kids with Dexter's girlfriend would have been a good addition

However Jonathan's suggestion to AMC and vetting out the person is correct. As a fellow id theft victim, it ain't pretty and a lot of work. 

But the legal department and marketing could have partnered up with Twitter to get these characters to cooperate. would have been HUGE for Twitter who also dropped the ball in not presenting AMC with the proverbial goose that laid the golden egg for both sides</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->The trick that AMC should have done was create other characters that took over:<br />
Pete Campbell could have taken over along with Don Draper actually flirting with the fine ladies on twitter.<br />
Plus given that  Joan Holloway and  Roger Sterling could have taken over&#8211; and driven out the other characters while having Twitter remove them from behind the scenes and plant new ones in their place</p>
<p>there is so much that could be done<br />
Hmmm Dexter and CSI Miami are often filmed in my city.. wonder if I should hit their PR about a campaign about the next season of Dexter ..Lila showing up from Paris to reach out to dexter and maybe the kids with Dexter&#8217;s girlfriend would have been a good addition</p>
<p>However Jonathan&#8217;s suggestion to AMC and vetting out the person is correct. As a fellow id theft victim, it ain&#8217;t pretty and a lot of work. </p>
<p>But the legal department and marketing could have partnered up with Twitter to get these characters to cooperate. would have been HUGE for Twitter who also dropped the ball in not presenting AMC with the proverbial goose that laid the golden egg for both sides<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Mad Men Twitterers No More by Jonathan Trenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan Trenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 21:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think AMC was legally justified here, but strategically they made a mistake.  They own the brand - the show that is - and the shows characters.

I think they should have contacted the people behind the characters and basically said "Look, we want to work with you because we see potential in this.  But we have to vet you on some things to make sure you're not a whacko or something".  

Then they could arrange some sort of legal arrangement whereas the character could be reclaimed if the person behind it started using it inappropriately.  The people behind the characters could get a stipend and even a free trip to meet the characters.

Companies have to protect their brands, but they can engage those that want to enhance it online.  

As far as taking over a character, I'd say that we all have to be careful - I've been a victim of identity theft - and it sucks.  

If an agency creates one for a client...that can get tricky.  Twitter is very personal and relationships build.  If you're doing it for a client, then it's best to just use it as a notification platform like @BarackObama.

I can see disasters happening where a "friend" or "follower" ends up meeting a person and thinks that the celeb type person will know them.  So the client must be kept appraised of what's going on and perhaps should be a part of it.

It's still an ethical question, but it's also more procedural.

What these people did with Mad Men was fine.  Sure, they got caught.  But it seems they had good motives.  The characters themselves were fictitious, so it wasn't as if there was someone out there being impersonated.

One point.  About vetting.  Necessary.  It could be like someone impersonating a cop.  Or the person involved could be someone undesirable in some way.  Have some sort of police record.  But AMC should have given these folks a try.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->I think AMC was legally justified here, but strategically they made a mistake.  They own the brand - the show that is - and the shows characters.</p>
<p>I think they should have contacted the people behind the characters and basically said &#8220;Look, we want to work with you because we see potential in this.  But we have to vet you on some things to make sure you&#8217;re not a whacko or something&#8221;.  </p>
<p>Then they could arrange some sort of legal arrangement whereas the character could be reclaimed if the person behind it started using it inappropriately.  The people behind the characters could get a stipend and even a free trip to meet the characters.</p>
<p>Companies have to protect their brands, but they can engage those that want to enhance it online.  </p>
<p>As far as taking over a character, I&#8217;d say that we all have to be careful - I&#8217;ve been a victim of identity theft - and it sucks.  </p>
<p>If an agency creates one for a client&#8230;that can get tricky.  Twitter is very personal and relationships build.  If you&#8217;re doing it for a client, then it&#8217;s best to just use it as a notification platform like @BarackObama.</p>
<p>I can see disasters happening where a &#8220;friend&#8221; or &#8220;follower&#8221; ends up meeting a person and thinks that the celeb type person will know them.  So the client must be kept appraised of what&#8217;s going on and perhaps should be a part of it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s still an ethical question, but it&#8217;s also more procedural.</p>
<p>What these people did with Mad Men was fine.  Sure, they got caught.  But it seems they had good motives.  The characters themselves were fictitious, so it wasn&#8217;t as if there was someone out there being impersonated.</p>
<p>One point.  About vetting.  Necessary.  It could be like someone impersonating a cop.  Or the person involved could be someone undesirable in some way.  Have some sort of police record.  But AMC should have given these folks a try.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Mad Men Twitterers No More by Chris Abraham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 20:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>AMC should have just played ignorant. Should have just let it go and try to bring the Twitterers into the folks. 

Jonathan, what is your take on Personal Twittering/blogging here?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->AMC should have just played ignorant. Should have just let it go and try to bring the Twitterers into the folks. </p>
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		<title>Comment on Mad Men Twitterers No More by Tish Grier</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tish Grier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 19:06:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was all great fun till someone got slapped with a take-down notice...

And you're right that it would have been great if AMC embraced the fans who were doing this.  They kept in character quite well, and it could have opened up a whole slew of new marketing opportunities for AMC, not to mention continued cultivation of a highly enthusiastic fan base. I'd hazard a guess that AMC has no idea how many people talk about Mad Men on Twitter on a regular basis, nor how those fans feel about the show. 

 Missed opportunities all over the place!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->It was all great fun till someone got slapped with a take-down notice&#8230;</p>
<p>And you&#8217;re right that it would have been great if AMC embraced the fans who were doing this.  They kept in character quite well, and it could have opened up a whole slew of new marketing opportunities for AMC, not to mention continued cultivation of a highly enthusiastic fan base. I&#8217;d hazard a guess that AMC has no idea how many people talk about Mad Men on Twitter on a regular basis, nor how those fans feel about the show. </p>
<p> Missed opportunities all over the place!<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrington missed the boat, Kel Kelly sets it straight by Chris Abraham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 17:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, and PS: we do about 3/4th of our outreaches as the client, so Arrington might be getting quite a number of pitches that he perceives as coming directly from the company of record but the entire outreach process is probably being guided by the PR agency of record.  Most of the best pitches are not signed "Abraham Harrison LLC." We do "as" and "on behalf" and most organizations choose "as."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Oh, and PS: we do about 3/4th of our outreaches as the client, so Arrington might be getting quite a number of pitches that he perceives as coming directly from the company of record but the entire outreach process is probably being guided by the PR agency of record.  Most of the best pitches are not signed &#8220;Abraham Harrison LLC.&#8221; We do &#8220;as&#8221; and &#8220;on behalf&#8221; and most organizations choose &#8220;as.&#8221;<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrington missed the boat, Kel Kelly sets it straight by Chris Abraham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 17:24:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another thing I learned from Inside PR, those Canadian guys, is that there is a general mis-perception that PR sells snake oil and that the fact that "PR firms are turning away clients" shows how foolish everyone is.

To be honest, the very-same people who can rock a Web 2.0 software application oftentimes really suck at shameless self promotion, effective marketing, innovative publicity, or recognizing when something will go viral or blow up in their face.</description>
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<p>To be honest, the very-same people who can rock a Web 2.0 software application oftentimes really suck at shameless self promotion, effective marketing, innovative publicity, or recognizing when something will go viral or blow up in their face.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrington missed the boat, Kel Kelly sets it straight by Jonathan Trenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan Trenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 16:06:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's exactly right Chris.  

Arrington wrongly sees PR as press responders. 

Actually, what startups often need are oveall marketing consultants that can give the lay of the land.  Again, many people behind startups think that it will easy sailing once they've gotten (and I'm thinking mostly of tech startups) their code functioning and that they've got one connection to a client, it's all smooth sailing.  They don't realize that they're battling for mindshare with a hundred other things.

Oddly, the fact that Arrington starts out by saying that PR firms are turning away clients should tell him something.  That means that PR firms recognize that a lot of potential clients don't have a story to tell.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->That&#8217;s exactly right Chris.  </p>
<p>Arrington wrongly sees PR as press responders. </p>
<p>Actually, what startups often need are oveall marketing consultants that can give the lay of the land.  Again, many people behind startups think that it will easy sailing once they&#8217;ve gotten (and I&#8217;m thinking mostly of tech startups) their code functioning and that they&#8217;ve got one connection to a client, it&#8217;s all smooth sailing.  They don&#8217;t realize that they&#8217;re battling for mindshare with a hundred other things.</p>
<p>Oddly, the fact that Arrington starts out by saying that PR firms are turning away clients should tell him something.  That means that PR firms recognize that a lot of potential clients don&#8217;t have a story to tell.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrington missed the boat, Kel Kelly sets it straight by Chris Abraham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 15:22:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike, what a great comment!  We do PR for lots of super-small shops and it is not about being over-capacity, it is about being expert in it. 

What most organizations and companies need from us at Abraham Harrison is path-finding.  In fact, there are lots of examples wherein these companies may have the bandwidth to be able to handle the volume but really don't know how to best go about it, don't know best practices, and -- the most important part -- &lt;i&gt;don't wanna&lt;/i&gt;.

I don't know about other firms, but we're happy to expand and contract based on what our client needs.  If our client just needs advisement and support in her efforts, we're happy to do that, too.

I love listening to the Podcast, &lt;a href="http://www.insidepr.ca/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Inside PR&lt;/a&gt; -- those cats are solid.  The biggest lesson I learned from their hundred-or-so podcasts is that PR professionals are not news release monkeys or flacks, PR professionals are &lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;consultants&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt; and should be retained and maintained from the start of a project as opposed to after the shit hits the fan or "until the volume of inbound requests by press are simply too much to handle without help."</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Mike, what a great comment!  We do PR for lots of super-small shops and it is not about being over-capacity, it is about being expert in it. </p>
<p>What most organizations and companies need from us at Abraham Harrison is path-finding.  In fact, there are lots of examples wherein these companies may have the bandwidth to be able to handle the volume but really don&#8217;t know how to best go about it, don&#8217;t know best practices, and &#8212; the most important part &#8212; <i>don&#8217;t wanna</i>.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about other firms, but we&#8217;re happy to expand and contract based on what our client needs.  If our client just needs advisement and support in her efforts, we&#8217;re happy to do that, too.</p>
<p>I love listening to the Podcast, <a href="http://www.insidepr.ca/" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview ('/outbound/www.insidepr.ca');">Inside PR</a> &#8212; those cats are solid.  The biggest lesson I learned from their hundred-or-so podcasts is that PR professionals are not news release monkeys or flacks, PR professionals are <i><b>consultants</b></i> and should be retained and maintained from the start of a project as opposed to after the shit hits the fan or &#8220;until the volume of inbound requests by press are simply too much to handle without help.&#8221;<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Arrington missed the boat, Kel Kelly sets it straight by Mike Keliher</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Keliher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 14:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Surely Arrington's perspective on this matter is valid -- *way* valid. But right off the bat, he's missing sometime important. He says, "First off, don’t hire PR help until the volume of inbound requests by press are simply too much to handle without help. That’s way down the line for most companies."

But that assumes that all a PR firm does, all a PR firm is good for, is handling "inbound requests by press." Sure, many PR people get by just fine by providing that as their key service, but so many more PR people do so much more than that.

Mike Volpe of Hubspot has some great insights on the value he, as a PR services buyer, sees PR firms providing. Perhaps of additional value for many people, he's specifically addressing the value a PR firm can provide to even a Web-savvy company (as his is):

&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/5d3gv2" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://tinyurl.com/5d3gv2&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Surely Arrington&#8217;s perspective on this matter is valid &#8212; *way* valid. But right off the bat, he&#8217;s missing sometime important. He says, &#8220;First off, don’t hire PR help until the volume of inbound requests by press are simply too much to handle without help. That’s way down the line for most companies.&#8221;</p>
<p>But that assumes that all a PR firm does, all a PR firm is good for, is handling &#8220;inbound requests by press.&#8221; Sure, many PR people get by just fine by providing that as their key service, but so many more PR people do so much more than that.</p>
<p>Mike Volpe of Hubspot has some great insights on the value he, as a PR services buyer, sees PR firms providing. Perhaps of additional value for many people, he&#8217;s specifically addressing the value a PR firm can provide to even a Web-savvy company (as his is):</p>
<p><a href="http://tinyurl.com/5d3gv2" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview ('/outbound/tinyurl.com');">http://tinyurl.com/5d3gv2</a><!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Who Represents needs a new URL by Chris Abraham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 00:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn't see WHOREpresents at all until you brought it to my attention: now, I can see nothing else.  Mr. Trenn, you have corrupted my noble soul! Bastard! :) -- however, you're right.  Has anyone checked to see if they did a comprehensive domain name buy -- what do WHOREpresents.net and WHOREpresents.org and WHOREpresents.us and WHOREpresents.eu point to?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->I didn&#8217;t see WHOREpresents at all until you brought it to my attention: now, I can see nothing else.  Mr. Trenn, you have corrupted my noble soul! Bastard! <img src='http://marketingconversation.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8212; however, you&#8217;re right.  Has anyone checked to see if they did a comprehensive domain name buy &#8212; what do WHOREpresents.net and WHOREpresents.org and WHOREpresents.us and WHOREpresents.eu point to?<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Who Represents needs a new URL by Dyre42</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dyre42</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 00:31:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It all depends on your frame of mind. In my case it depends on my mood.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by Maurene Caplan Grey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maurene Caplan Grey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 19:49:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Flogs disguised as blogs is conceptually the same as spam disguised as an email message from your bank. Instant messaging--same thing. 

Up until a year ago, over 14,000 followers presumably thought that Comedy Central's Stephen Colbert was @stephencolbert https://twitter.com/stephencolbert. (In case you've not heard, @stephencolbert was a fake http://tinyurl.com/5hmwl7). 

The fake @stephencolbert was fun. But the fake @ExxonMobilCorp http://tinyurl.com/6x6aco was picked up by the mainstream media as valid.

Flogs are just another form of identity theft.</description>
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<p>Up until a year ago, over 14,000 followers presumably thought that Comedy Central&#8217;s Stephen Colbert was @stephencolbert <a href="https://twitter.com/stephencolbert." rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview ('/outbound/twitter.com');">https://twitter.com/stephencolbert.</a> (In case you&#8217;ve not heard, @stephencolbert was a fake <a href="http://tinyurl.com/5hmwl7" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview ('/outbound/tinyurl.com');">http://tinyurl.com/5hmwl7</a>). </p>
<p>The fake @stephencolbert was fun. But the fake @ExxonMobilCorp <a href="http://tinyurl.com/6x6aco" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:pageTracker._trackPageview ('/outbound/tinyurl.com');">http://tinyurl.com/6&#215;6aco</a> was picked up by the mainstream media as valid.</p>
<p>Flogs are just another form of identity theft.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by Stevie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 13:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's why I am an LA Woman with an LA-Story.. 

 my podcasts have discretion-- my discretion. 
. it's all about what the other person says-- and I do edit (as Chris well knows).. 
It's a conversation that reflect who the person on the other end is-- it's not about me. It's about them


relationships-- isn't that what life is about? relationships with other people? 
flogging -- never going to get away from it..</description>
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<p> my podcasts have discretion&#8211; my discretion.<br />
. it&#8217;s all about what the other person says&#8211; and I do edit (as Chris well knows)..<br />
It&#8217;s a conversation that reflect who the person on the other end is&#8211; it&#8217;s not about me. It&#8217;s about them</p>
<p>relationships&#8211; isn&#8217;t that what life is about? relationships with other people?<br />
flogging &#8212; never going to get away from it..<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by not gonna say</title>
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		<dc:creator>not gonna say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 03:22:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You got me.  Nailed me.  Jim Morrison here. Back from the dead.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by Chris Abraham</title>
		<link>http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/marconcomm/~3/370680758/</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 02:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People are strange when you're a stranger
Faces look ugly when you're alone
Women seem wicked when you're unwanted</description>
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Faces look ugly when you&#8217;re alone<br />
Women seem wicked when you&#8217;re unwanted<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by not gonna say</title>
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		<dc:creator>not gonna say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 02:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Life is strange.  

A blog about flogging.

A discussion about relationships.

A podcast with no discretion.  

Social media is so cool..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Life is strange.  </p>
<p>A blog about flogging.</p>
<p>A discussion about relationships.</p>
<p>A podcast with no discretion.  </p>
<p>Social media is so cool..<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by Stevie</title>
		<link>http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/marconcomm/~3/370680760/</link>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 02:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG Chris Abraham....  let's discuss this on a podcast-- and have you say that to me then. 
My life is my life and there's a LOT left to live and get the juiciest best out of it.  
so there. 
There are some comments I could make here but I think discretion is an underrated  virtue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->OMG Chris Abraham&#8230;.  let&#8217;s discuss this on a podcast&#8211; and have you say that to me then.<br />
My life is my life and there&#8217;s a LOT left to live and get the juiciest best out of it.<br />
so there.<br />
There are some comments I could make here but I think discretion is an underrated  virtue.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by Chris Abraham</title>
		<link>http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/marconcomm/~3/370680761/</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another thing that I like about the online world is that &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;not gonna say&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; has the freedom to protect his privacy -- &lt;i&gt;nobody knows you're a dog on the Internet.&lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Another thing that I like about the online world is that <b><i>not gonna say</i></b> has the freedom to protect his privacy &#8212; <i>nobody knows you&#8217;re a dog on the Internet.</i><!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on The next president should seek to understand digital media by Deb Block-Schwenk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb Block-Schwenk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My father is in his late 60's - he buys computer equipment on eBay, books short-term apartments from Craigslist and Googles the owners to make sure they're legit.   So it has nothing to do with age -- it has to do with being open to new ideas regardless of age. 

Ignorance is no longer cute - right on!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->My father is in his late 60&#8217;s - he buys computer equipment on eBay, books short-term apartments from Craigslist and Googles the owners to make sure they&#8217;re legit.   So it has nothing to do with age &#8212; it has to do with being open to new ideas regardless of age. </p>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by not gonna say</title>
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		<dc:creator>not gonna say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:19:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is getting silly.  

I should start a series of flogs about dating.  Get everyone riled up.  I'd be killing two birds with one stone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->This is getting silly.  </p>
<p>I should start a series of flogs about dating.  Get everyone riled up.  I&#8217;d be killing two birds with one stone.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by Chris Abraham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Women use code so as to not make us guys feel like shit. "many women tell me that when they were younger they went for the bad boys" is code for "when I was young I took some risks, went out with passionate, interesting, men, had a great time, sucked the marrow out of life, had a lot of fun, had an extreme of feelings and emotions, learned many things; in other words, went out with guys that had their own thing going on and that was appealing!  They didn't stick to me like a wet cotton T-- I went out with men hotter than I was; when I got older, I decided it best to marry a man who isn't as hot as I am... and I will continue to look back to those delicious days with the passionate and sexy men I had in my youth.  So, when I say, 'I went for the bad boys,' I meant, really, I went for the boys with whom I could be bad! Men who would not make me feel guilty for all the hot sexy fun shameless things I have done with them -- so as to avoid those appalling 'virgin mary' moral sink-holes -- guys I could experiment with without ever feeling guilt or shame!"

How's that interpretation, Stevie?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Women use code so as to not make us guys feel like shit. &#8220;many women tell me that when they were younger they went for the bad boys&#8221; is code for &#8220;when I was young I took some risks, went out with passionate, interesting, men, had a great time, sucked the marrow out of life, had a lot of fun, had an extreme of feelings and emotions, learned many things; in other words, went out with guys that had their own thing going on and that was appealing!  They didn&#8217;t stick to me like a wet cotton T&#8211; I went out with men hotter than I was; when I got older, I decided it best to marry a man who isn&#8217;t as hot as I am&#8230; and I will continue to look back to those delicious days with the passionate and sexy men I had in my youth.  So, when I say, &#8216;I went for the bad boys,&#8217; I meant, really, I went for the boys with whom I could be bad! Men who would not make me feel guilty for all the hot sexy fun shameless things I have done with them &#8212; so as to avoid those appalling &#8216;virgin mary&#8217; moral sink-holes &#8212; guys I could experiment with without ever feeling guilt or shame!&#8221;</p>
<p>How&#8217;s that interpretation, Stevie?<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<dc:creator>not gonna say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:03:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Exactly.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Flogging:  Advertising or not - it’s wrong.  Wrong or not - it’s inevitable. by Jonathan Trenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan Trenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:01:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>May I interject?

I think what not gonna say is saying is that the living up to certain ideals may not result in desired results.  If flogging becomes inevitable, it means it's effective.  So it will happen.  Those who provide certain social media marketing services have to take this into consideration.  Otherwise they won't get hired.  The other firm will.

As for dating, yes, at certain ages people often put too much emphasis on the wrong things and deal with negative consequences.  Evaluate and adjust to the reality.  But be true to yourself.</description>
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<p>I think what not gonna say is saying is that the living up to certain ideals may not result in desired results.  If flogging becomes inevitable, it means it&#8217;s effective.  So it will happen.  Those who provide certain social media marketing services have to take this into consideration.  Otherwise they won&#8217;t get hired.  The other firm will.</p>
<p>As for dating, yes, at certain ages people often put too much emphasis on the wrong things and deal with negative consequences.  Evaluate and adjust to the reality.  But be true to yourself.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<dc:creator>not gonna say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:54:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh please.

I was simply pointing out that staying true to certain types of idealism can lead to unintended consequences.

For the record, I've had many women tell me that when they were younger they went for the bad boys.  As they got a bit older, and sick of that, they changed their outlook.

And if Chris' old firm did no stealth or black arts marketing, it wouldn't have grown into a powerhouse. 

You don't have to change your nature, you need to learn how to apply it more effectively.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Oh please.</p>
<p>I was simply pointing out that staying true to certain types of idealism can lead to unintended consequences.</p>
<p>For the record, I&#8217;ve had many women tell me that when they were younger they went for the bad boys.  As they got a bit older, and sick of that, they changed their outlook.</p>
<p>And if Chris&#8217; old firm did no stealth or black arts marketing, it wouldn&#8217;t have grown into a powerhouse. </p>
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		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ain't that the truth. You have to watch your back on this one.</description>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now, back to the topic-at-hand -- and it was an important sideline, too.  I think this is why flogging and shilling can be so awful -- so many people are asking, "dude, what do you want? Are you being nice or are you fattening me up for something?"</description>
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		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:45:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that's so true Chris. I have found that there were NICE people in business who were (and have) used me. I have found some aloof people-- who once they thawed out and got to know me-- were really nice and great people. I  gather my *nice * people around me... they are my friends.  The nice people will make time for you if you need it. They are confident in who they are.  
Right now, I know the difference between treated nicely because someone wants something and just because that's who the person is. I don't  dislike the former but I do like the latter. 

I give people all the time in the world to be who they are . Nice is just one of those wonderful characteristics that I now appreciate so much .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->that&#8217;s so true Chris. I have found that there were NICE people in business who were (and have) used me. I have found some aloof people&#8211; who once they thawed out and got to know me&#8211; were really nice and great people. I  gather my *nice * people around me&#8230; they are my friends.  The nice people will make time for you if you need it. They are confident in who they are.<br />
Right now, I know the difference between treated nicely because someone wants something and just because that&#8217;s who the person is. I don&#8217;t  dislike the former but I do like the latter. </p>
<p>I give people all the time in the world to be who they are . Nice is just one of those wonderful characteristics that I now appreciate so much .<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Abraham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don't confuse "nice" with spineless, afraid, or weak. Besides, anyone who intentionally acts nice in order to curry favor is actually not nice at all but is scheming, bitter, and vindictive. That may have been because of insecurity, fear, hurt, or painful shyness or fear of rejection, but if, what you're asking for is to be friends, then you're going to get friendship.  If, what you're looking for is honest connection and intimacy and a romance, you need to ask for that.  Finally, if you ask for a platonic friendship that's what you get, even if your true agenda is to, ahem, "get laid."  Talk about a lack of transparency!

Real, honest, straight-forward, confidence, real security, and real gentle niceness is always rewarded.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Don&#8217;t confuse &#8220;nice&#8221; with spineless, afraid, or weak. Besides, anyone who intentionally acts nice in order to curry favor is actually not nice at all but is scheming, bitter, and vindictive. That may have been because of insecurity, fear, hurt, or painful shyness or fear of rejection, but if, what you&#8217;re asking for is to be friends, then you&#8217;re going to get friendship.  If, what you&#8217;re looking for is honest connection and intimacy and a romance, you need to ask for that.  Finally, if you ask for a platonic friendship that&#8217;s what you get, even if your true agenda is to, ahem, &#8220;get laid.&#8221;  Talk about a lack of transparency!</p>
<p>Real, honest, straight-forward, confidence, real security, and real gentle niceness is always rewarded.<!-- google_ad_section_end --></p>
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