Note: Julia Roy gave me permission to write about this. I’m posting it without her reading it first.

A week or so ago I noticed that a tweet on Twitter that showed concern for Julia Roy, a 24-year old social media enthusiast. I’ve never met Julia and while we’ve just started following another on Twitter, she seems to be the way she comes off…a young attractive, enthusiastic woman who has woven social media aspects into both her professional and public life.

It seems that some time last fall, Julia was contacted by one Chuck Adkins via IM. Now Julia is in New York City. Chuck is in Michigan. Apparently Chuck saw Julia, thought she was attractive and noticed that she had posted her IM handle while on Twitter. So he IMed her. They had a few conversations over the course of a couple of weeks. Julia says that she explained to Chuck that she was ‘taken’ and feels that he was “overly complimentary”. Chuck himself admits in an Utterz that he found her to be attractive. Hence, he contacted her. Read more…

Online video is changing the way we communicate. It’s not just YouTube or Hulu. We know essentially have “video phones” like the ones we saw on sci-fli flicks back in the 1960’s. This is an evolution that I be you’ll be taking part in within three years.

I hardly ever use the word “revolution” because I think it’s tremendously overused by overeager enthusiasts who fail to understand that this whole integration of digital technologies into our lives is an evolutionary process. The browser was a revolution.

But evolutions can happen fast. And that’s what’s happening right now. Take a look at this.

What you’ll see is how Adrianne George, an African-American expat living in Stockholm is using ooVoo along with several of her colleagues to discuss politics and issues affecting people of color. (Disclosure: ooVoo is a client.) She’s in touch with several people who use ooVoo in both Europe and the United States. One is African American Political Pundit. Another is Francis Holland, both relatively well-known in the political blogosphere. And she can talk to up to five people at once.

I like the interface and the screen quality. That’s, of course, tied into the cameras. But the idea that up to six people having a video conference at once shows me that small working teams, a gaggle of teens, groups of friends, etc. will now be able to have group conversations in real time.

That’s because to me, the very concept of a multi-person conversation going on from various parts of the world using live feeds of video and audio is a awesome example of how current applications of online video technology is allowing people to broaden the way they interact. Ideas can be expressed in real time by people sitting at their dinner table and home offices and cubicles. Forget about the fact that a client of ours is empowering this. Instead, see how this service - and their even competitors will be changing the way we communicate.

OK, I for one have to admit it. I love ooVoo as a client and I love ooVoo as a service.

A revolution? No. At first it will be about competing platforms and speed of adoption. There will be shakeouts and buyouts and unforeseen roadblocks that will hamper the adoption of these technologies. But changes are coming.

When it comes to work-life (W-L) balance, look to Dan Hull for the answers:

For me, the point is and always has been making my/your life a work of art. That’s it. If you think there is something selfish or grandiose about that, fine. Art is intended to make sense of our world and ourselves. Choose your life, and then fill in the blanks. Blood, family and relationships for most of us will be the priority and a major part of the life canvas. You struggle, you grow, you surround yourself with people who stretch you, you work, you give and you increase love. Yet this stuff blends together–and needs to blend so we can be happy. For many of us, life and work are not capable of a bright-line separation if you love your existence, the people in it and what you do.

Hopefully, people in your life want you to chase a dream or two. It makes you happy. And, hey, communications technologies, and the lemming-like madness often surrounding it all, are no cure-all–but technologies do make work-life “blurring” possible, easier on others and often fun. Someone just said this all a lot better than I can or have here, and thanks to Stephanie West Allen of Idealawg, I just read it. See Marci Alboher’s piece in the New York Times small business section, “Blurring by Choice and Passion“.

Amen.